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Option is Part of Adoption

If you or someone you know is faced with an unexpected pregnancy that person may be flooded with fears, doubts and concerns.  “I just can’t have a child right now” is frequently on the minds of our clients. Parenting seems impossible, and abortion seems daunting.  Yet, these two choices are most frequently chosen without considering or exploring another option – adoption.  To some, adoption may seem like an unbearable sacrifice, too much of a loss, or even abandonment.  Adoption is a sacrifice, but it’s also selfless act, and, if understood more clearly, it can be a very positive, life-affirming decision.   Let’s peer into the option of adoption with fresh, open eyes.

 

WHAT ARE ADOPTION OPTIONS?

 

Adoption has changed dramatically over the years.  What used to be only a “closed adoption” meaning no contact with the child,  today adoption has options – open, semi-open or closed. Depending upon the birth mom’s situation,  she can decide what is best for her and for her child. 

She can choose the parents of her baby through a reputable agency, and can be involved as little or as much in the child’s life as mutually agreed upon with the adoptive parents.Birth mom | preparing

Placing a child with parents that have been pre-screened, pre-qualified and that fit her criteria for adoptive parents gives the birth mom a feeling of empowerment.  Also, having the opportunity to be involved in the child’s life is a great advantage to many birth moms. Other women may prefer to place her baby without any contact.  It is a personal and important decision that only she (and if the baby’s father is involved) can make.

While placing for adoption is a loss, and there is an initial grieving period over that loss, many who place for adoption report a sense of peace and joy knowing they gave their child life.

Listen here to amazing stories of recent birth mothers recent testimonies with  topics like, Do I get to meet the Adoptive Parents? Things Adoptive parents Want to Know About Us.

 

BIRTH MOTHER BENEFITS!

When a mother chooses adoption over abortion is there a benefit?  Statistics reveal that abortion may leave emotional scars that can range from minimal reoccuring sadness, to the more invasive, Post Abortion Stress Syndrome (PASS).  


Birth mom living healthy San ClementeWith adoption, a birth mother may be comforted knowing she has the ability to carry her child for 9 months.    Additionally, when carrying a child to term,  many pregnant women take up healthier lifestyles, making better food choices, exercising more, and dropping bad habits – creating a “new improved self”.  Often times these new habits stick and the birth mom,  baby and adoptive parents score a win!

 

IF YOU ARE PREGNANT

This is a choice that you need to think about carefully, and if you’re not ready to parent, adoption may be the right choice for you.  At the ABC Life Choices we can talk about your options and have a respectful and honest conversation…even when it’s not easy.

 

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If you are sexually active and are concerned that you may be pregnant, make an appointment for a pregnancy test at ABC Life Choices. We will answer your questions and provide you with factual information in order for you to make an informed decision. If you are pregnant, you may qualify for a limited ultrasound at no cost to you. All of our services are free and confidential.

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An unplanned pregnancy doesn’t have to cost you your hope or future.

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Frequently Asked Questions

A: Walk-ins are welcome. However, it is best to make an appointment to minimize your office wait time. Please call (907) 283-9062 or schedule an appointment online. After hours, call or text 1-800-712-4357.

A: Absolutely. You can bring your boyfriend, family member, or friend. We will talk with you privately first. Then, provided you have given us consent to have them in the room, your guest will be able to join you.

A: You’ll be welcomed by our receptionist who will introduce you to your client advocate.  She will listen to you judgment-free and provide you with information followed by a pregnancy test.  Should your test be positive, one of our caring medical professionals will conduct a limited ultrasound to confirm if you have a viable pregnancy and date fetal age. 

A: Our tests can be performed 7 to 10 days after conception. A client with a negative result may be invited to return within 2 weeks for a repeat test if she has not had her period.  

If you have taken a home pregnancy test, it is best to confirm results with a laboratory-quality test at our center.

A:  We adhere to a strict privacy and confidentiality policy. Clients will be protected from disclosure of information that violates the right to privacy except when required by law, required for public health reasons, required to avert a threat of harm to the client or a third person, or when other circumstances may reasonably warrant such use or disclosure without prior authorization (e.g., abuse reporting, suicide/homicide prevention, etc.).

A: Our professional, medical-grade lab quality pregnancy test can determine pregnancy at the first day after your first missed period. We recommend you make an appointment if you have missed a period, have any pregnancy related questions, or think you might be pregnant.

A: On-site ultrasounds are available after an initial intake with one of our client advocates.  Our limited ultrasound exams are performed by a licensed nurse sonographer or RDMS (registered sonographer) and reviewed by a licensed physician.  An ultrasound confirms a viable pregnancy and determines how far along you are.  To qualify for a limited ultrasound, you’ll need to be a minimum of 6 weeks since your last menstrual period.

A: You can still meet with a member of our staff to discuss your concerns and review available options.  An ultrasound is recommended to know if your pregnancy is viable and in your uterus, since 20% – 25% of all pregnancies end in miscarriage.  Additionally, the ultrasound will show how far along you are to determine what type of abortion you would choose.  We can provide a limited ultrasound at no cost to you.

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